Woody, I am really so sorry for all your misfortune. Your wife's name is no doubt Angel. Yes, there is help for you. There are grant's available for your assistance. Your wife can and should apply for caregiver assistance through the Social Security Administration; they will pay her to care for you. There are also Weatherization programs available, so your Angel doesn't have t do the work herself (that's local). There are also the Habitat for Humanity program's for which you and your's should be eligible. Then, if more assistance is needed you can always apply to the government for emergency relief. Grant's. gov, etc. Have you chcked with local churches and utility companies? Call your state government and explain your situation to them. God Bless you and your's and Best wishes, as well... May God Himself bless and keep you safe and warm...